Explain this to me please!

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
Okay, I am getting fed up with double standards! Seriously!

Can someone explain to me how a picture like this: http://xaxor.com/images/65692365/aubrey_is_a_hot_blonde_from_facebook_020.jpg

And a picture like this: http://www.mydrunkbabes.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/sexystunninggorgeoushotfacebookpicsgirls8.jpg

Is more appropriate than the last picture I posted of me in this thread.. I even cropped it for Facebook to where you can't tell that it's a corset that I'm wearing..

It's really aggravating to me that even though those women in the other pictures are showing 10 times more skin, mine is seen as somehow being more sexual or inappropriate simply because I have huge tits and those other girls don't! I could literally be standing next to a girl with b cup boobs wearing the EXACT same shirt and I would be told that mine is more inappropriate then hers.

Why do you guys think society works this way? :dunno:
 
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I can't see your picture. I get this, "This content is currently unavailable". Of course, I also don't have a Facebook page, so I don't know if that has anything to do with it.
 

Ari Dee

Official Checked Star Member
Because people will use any old bullshit excuse to put someone down so they feel good.

I've had this exact thing happen at an old job. Where they pulled a busty friend of mine aside and told her she needed to stop wearing low cut tops.
Well I have small boobs and wore low cut tops all the time. And let's be real, men stare at ALL boobs.

Plus, people will do the same thing about women who pose in lingerie, even though in my eyes it's the same as a bathing suit.
Like I said, any old excuse to put someone down so they feel more secure in their own skin, it's pathetic.
 

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
Sorry guys I don't why the pic isn't working..
 

L3ggy

Special Operations FOX-HOUND
Whoever said that is a fool.
 

Mayhem

Banned
The pic works for me, and I see nothing inappropriate. If Facebook is telling you that, tell 'em to get stuffed.

I had Faceook for a couple months then got rid of my account. Most pointless waste of time on the interweb.
 

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
Because people will use any old bullshit excuse to put someone down so they feel good.

I've had this exact thing happen at an old job. Where they pulled a busty friend of mine aside and told her she needed to stop wearing low cut tops.
Well I have small boobs and wore low cut tops all the time. And let's be real, men stare at ALL boobs.

Plus, people will do the same thing about women who pose in lingerie, even though in my eyes it's the same as a bathing suit.
Like I said, any old excuse to put someone down so they feel more secure in their own skin, it's pathetic.


Exactly. It makes no sense. I just had to put this statement on my Facebook after some people decided that I was an attention seeking whore since my boobs were in a picture..

I honestly am so done feeling like I'm not a normal person and I can't post pictures that other girls post or wear bathing suit cuts that other girls wear or shop at the stores that other girls shop at simply because my body was made differently than theirs.. how is it okay for one person to post a bikini picture because there is nothing in the bikini but not okay for someone else because they have a large chest. If all you see when you look at me is boobs than that's YOUR problem not mine. If you aren't capable of seeing what an awesome, smart, talented and fun person I am because I have "too much" cleavage then you don't even deserve the chance to know me. So the next time I post a picture with my cleavage showing please drop the "she's just trying to call attention to her boobs" speech because when a girl with an A cup posts a similar picture no one says that she is only trying to draw attention to her "small chest." That doesn't make sense does it? So the next time you say that I'm just trying to draw attention by posting a picture of myself that I happen to like, think about it.
 
They are definitely jealous of your big boobs. They would all be posting the same pics if they had big ones too.

I'd still like to be able to see the pic. Can you please attach it to a post on this thread?
 
Only the very last one and I cropped it so you can't tell it's a corset

A corset really doesn't suit your body shape, I'm a big fan of Corsets and my fiance is fond of wearing them as well - She has a very hourglass shape, so she tapers in naturally at the waist. No disrespect meant when I say it just looks like you are forcing yourself into it and hoping the seams will hold. Your practically resting your chin on your chest which is exploding through the top edge.

Why not use a waspie or an underbust corset with a matching bra? You'd retain the sexual look of a corset, enhanced cleavage for the girls and have a much sexier overall effect.
 

Alyssa Rose

Official Checked Star Member
A corset really doesn't suit your body shape, I'm a big fan of Corsets and my fiance is fond of wearing them as well - She has a very hourglass shape, so she tapers in naturally at the waist. No disrespect meant when I say it just looks like you are forcing yourself into it and hoping the seams will hold. Your practically resting your chin on your chest which is exploding through the top edge.

Why not use a waspie or an underbust corset with a matching bra? You'd retain the sexual look of a corset, enhanced cleavage for the girls and have a much sexier overall effect.

It's your opinion that it doesn't fit my shape. My boyfriend happened to love it and I felt sexy in it. Feeling sexy is really all that matters.
 
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